I really feel encouraged by this agent who took about 10 weeks to respond. By email:
I am so sorry for how long I have been with your memoir. I was so torn— as I think you are a fabulous writer— and your story is compelling, but I am afraid I am not enthusiastic enough to feel I would be the best advocate for it. I know you will find success with it, and I wish you all the best,
Onward and upward. That kinda makes my day.